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how we gather.
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We grow cultures. We catalyze good organizations into world class leaders in teamwork, morale, and innovation; schools and workplaces so compelling that new hires would move across the country for the chance to contribute to and benefit from such an environment.
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We envision a world where it is well understood that our way of engaging in twos, threes and groups, determines everything. In this world, workplace dynamics is not an afterthought, but the primary competitive advantage for attracting and retaining the best possible people.
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We make no attempt to hide our prejudice. Ours is a bias toward group etiquette; how members of a team interact with one another.
The Frame Changers approach 1.] focuses on the shapes that groups of your people take on different occasions and 2.] makes micro-adjustments to those configurations to achieve macro-gains in the energetics and morale of the institution at large.
Advisory Board
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Dr. Will Bledsoe
Restorative-Communication Trainer, professor and author of The Restorative Way
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Dr. Frida Rundell, PhD, LPC
International Institute for Restorative Practices founding faculty member and author of The Art of Narrative
“Ben is our go-to problem guy. He flips a problem on its head so we can remove what’s blocking us in order to step into the next chapter.”
Carrie Allen - Founder of

“Working with Frame Changers had the effect of disrupting traditional ways we think about problems. It’s about recentering on where it is that you are heading and why.”
-Dr. Marc Smith, Superintendent Dennis-Yarmouth School District
Lead Coach & trainer
Ben Emery
In 2004, Ben had a run-in with the police…
What Leaders are saying…
Hear Ben introduce the concept of Restorative Justice on the Man About Town show with David Alexander
Organizational Constellation Work
Go deeper than strategy, faster than facilitation.
After this, the old way of running off-sites will feel like playing house.
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Originating in Germany in the 1990s, the work draws from family systems therapy and indigenous wisdom, particularly the Zulu approach to ancestral “maintenance”. The modality views those challenges so often understood as “personal”, through a multi-generational lens. In this way, personal problems are revealed instead as systemic entanglements to be honored and worked with.
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Clients are led either individually or in a group setting by a facilitator; appointing representatives to stand as family members or elements of the family system. Arranging representatives in physical space, invites them to speak, move, and interact. Invisible intergenerational patterns and hidden loyalties are brought into sharp focus, widening the client's perspective and exposing previously unseen solutions.
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-Get unstuck
-Replace tired habits with simple next actions
-Free yourself from the debilitating affects of the story that you tell yourself about the problem
-Swap running from to moving toward
-Provide advance healing for your descendants
For The Man Who’s Made It - But Is Ready To Feel Alive Again
The Beyond Success Forum is a private space for high-achieving men ready to recalibrate — not just their work, but their next chapter.
Fall cohort forming now.
Applications open August 10th.
Trauma & The Soul’s Gold
Grief Literacy workshop for educators and Helping professionals
“He doesn’t ask us to feel better. He asks us to sorrow skillfully, openly; within earshot of young people.”
-Carl Austin Hyatt, 2020 Piscataqua Grantee & MacDowell Fellow Photographer